Sunday, May 25, 2008

Tobi's Fan Club

Memorial Day is the day that we honor our fallen soldiers, men and women who have given their lives in defense of this country. I however, want to honor those who are left behind when soldiers go to war, most particularly my daughter-in-law Tobi.

When Tobi's husband (my son) Joel was deployed to Iraq in August of 2006, Tobi and their sweet children, Alec, and Cora were left behind. Not having lived in Texas for a very long period,I'm certain that they felt like strangers in a strange land. Tobi was terrified at the prospect of twelve months as the sole parent and caregiver of two kids living far from her family.

Despite this and the constant worry about a husband living in a war zone, Tobi rose to the occasion. I'm so proud of her for facing those many months, and numerous challenges all by herself. We tried to give her as much support as we could, but when it comes right down to it, she had to do it herself.

I know that she had many long periods of loneliness and depression. She had to deal with all the little things that come with cars, homes, children, far away husbands and poopy cribs. She was a great support for Joel while he was gone and talked with him on the computer almost every day. Sick kids, potty training, care giving are what she did day in, and day out. When the army increased Joel's tour of duty to 15 months I really worried for her. I know that they were both devastated when this happened, but Tobi bucked up and carried on.
As I look back on those months it seems obvious to me that a loving Heavenly Father kept his eye on Joel and Tobi. For that I will aways be grateful.

Tobi is one in a million. She would give you the shirt off her back if she thought that you needed it. She is lots of fun and extremely bright. She is also very beautiful with the most amazing eyes. In other words, I'm Tobi's #1 fan ( I suspect her Mom might not agree with that) and she's something very special to me.
Thanks Tobi, I love you

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

A few of my favorite things.....

Raindrops on roses and
Whiskers on kittens
Here are my grandkids,
Better then mittens.

Last summer we took Riley and Kaiya to the zoo. When my brother saw this picture, he wanted to know who the weirdo in the hat was. Crazy Granny of course. I kinda look like I'm in pain. I think I scared the tiger in the background too.

This is one of the greatest strollers in the world. Rachelle takes the babies out every day for a walk. This was my lucky day, I got to go with her. People are amazed.

How about that, a grandma who can make balloon swords.

Miss Cora gives me lots of love.

Blowing bubbles is great. Especially if you have Alec to help you out.

Five for the price of five. Ohhhh I love those babies.

The kids are in the sunlight and I'm in the shade, just as it should be.

Andrew and Easter eggs, Just don't turn your back on him.

Doesn't Trevor look great in red?

Well, these are just a few of my favorite things. I haven't even started on Star Trek yet.